With so many sex toys to choose from, it can be a confusing game picking the right one for you. Personally, I’d suggest deciding what part of the body will lead you to an intense O, and if it’s your clitoris – you’ve come to the right place.
Think of a magic wand as the key to your clit. Originally designed in the 1960’s by Japanese brand Hitachi as a body massager for muscle and pain relief, they gained popularity among people who struggled to experience orgasms. Famed sex educator Betty Dodson famously called the Magic Wand “the Cadillac of vibrators”—you know, because a Cadillac is so big and powerful. But that was nearly 50 years ago. Does the Magic Wand still live up to the hype? Abso-frickin-lutely.
Wands are also the best sex toy if you want the deep, rumbly vibration that a small vibe just can’t deliver. “I’d suggest looking for something that has a large head—at least the size of golf ball for a small wand and about the size of a tennis ball for a big wand,” says Alicia Sinclair, sex expert and founder of LeWand and B-Vibe. She also encourages listening to wands before buying them: The vibration should hum, not squeal. And if you want to use your wand vibrator on multiple body parts and/or people, Sinclair recommends finding “a wand with attachments.”
Whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom or enhance solo excitement, this toy could change your sex life. Check out our faves below.
The OG:
Hitachi Magic Wand Plus Plug-in Massager
This wouldn’t be a wand roundup if we didn’t add the iconic Hitachi magic wand massager. The wand vibrator that put wands on the sexual map, this incredibly powerful wand plugs into the wall, giving you unmatched vibration strength (they do have a rechargable option, too). This wand is known for its ability to encourage female ejaculation, but also double as a neck massager.
Best for beginners:
Lovehoney Deluxe Mini Massage Wand Vibrator
Don’t have one of these in your kit yet? We’ve got you. While small in size, this vibrator still delivers intense pleasure. Its round head and flexible neck are the perfect combo when it comes to hitting the right spot, whether laying down, standing up or playing with your partner.
One gripe: it’s not particularly quiet. But if you can live with that, you might be onto a winner.
The most bougie option:
LELO SMART WAND 2 Medium All-Over Body Massager
LELO specialises in luxury sex tech and its magic wand is no different. Unwind with the help of 10 vibration patterns, from soft tremors to powerful pulses, and don’t worry about getting stopped in your tracks, thanks to its super long-lasting charge. It’s also 100% waterproof so perfect for the bath and shower.
Best double-ended wand:
Ricky’s Ultimate Magic Wand Massager Vibrator
This magic wand delivers delightful vibrations to the intended sweet spots, feels gloriously soft to touch and best of all it’s multi-functional, so you can use one end as a clit stimulator and then flip it round to pinpoint your G-spot.
Best mini wand:
Lady bonnd Minnie Mini Wand
While rather subtle, this mini wand is anything other than that once between the sheets. Yep, it packs a pint-sized punch, delivered through 10 powerful modes. It’s also super quiet and discreet.
Most quiet contender:
Dame Com
With its ergonomic shape and five different vibration patterns, the Com is perfect for those looking for a versatile and quiet pleasure toy. Its waterproof feature is great for wet and slippery play.
Best for couples:
Le Wand Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator
Looking to spice things up with your partner? This magic wand has the whole package: It’s extra powerful, has a flexible head for precise external stimulation, and 20 tempting patterns with 10 intensities. Now that should keep you busy in the bedroom!
Best for multiple orgasms:
Lovehoney Mon Ami Silicone Body Wand Massager
Powerful, but discreet, with a whisper-quiet motor, this wand will deliver intense vibrations from head to toe. It boasts 5 speeds and 7 vibration patterns, and is made of silky-smooth silicone (meaning it’s 100% waterproof). It also has a travel lock feature, so you can be confident that your toy won’t accidentally turn on at the wrong moment.
Best for travel:
VUSH Peachy Silicone Mini Wand Massager
Fancy a quickie at lunchtime? Try this cute little ‘thang. It’s super-quiet, comes with 10 vibration settings and fits neatly inside your handbag.
Best for long-distance relationships:
Lovense Domi 2 Rechargeable Mini Wand Vibrator
The Domi 2 from Lovense is app-controlled and has a flexible neck to apply pressure in all the right places. Rub the silicone head on your clit and let your partner be in control wherever they are in the world. Keep in mind that reviews say this toy is very loud, so be weary of where you use it.
What is a magic wand vibrator?
A magic wand is a sex toy for targeting your erogenous zones. They are designed for external stimulation and are more powerful than other options since there’s a motor on the tip of the stick. Just know that, in general, wand vibes aren’t meant to go inside you (however there a few exceptions though).
Wands are a great first choice for those who are just dipping their toes into sex toys, as well as those who are more experienced
What makes a good magic wand vibrator?
There are three things to consider before making a purchase:
Size: Is it large and powerful enough to deliver vibrations? Some vagina-havers like it hard and fast while others prefer a slow and sensual vibe.
Charge: Most sex toys are USB-powered these days, but some of the larger high-octane models are mains powered and remote control vibes often come with batteries.
Noise: If you have flatmates, kids or still live with your parents and plan on using your fave wand vibrator on the reg, then it is worth searching for an almost-silent bit of sex tech.
How to use a magic wand vibrator
To get started, simply apply the vibrating head of your wand to your most sensitive external erogenous zones and see what feels nice. And when you hit the sweet spot? Keep going.
IF you want your partner to join in, suggest a gentle massage to get them in the mood before working your way down… and round. Some brands have even created double-ended wands, so look out for one of these if you’re keen to mix up clitoral stimulation with internal G-spot play.
And, let’s not forget the mighty magic wand’s intended purpose! Who can say no to a simple back massage.
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